Could you sound a little more Neanderthal? We are in modern times and I can't see the problem if people want to hyphenate their names or do whatever. My ex-wife didn't change her name when we married and I could have cared less. We were married and that is all that mattered. My current wife took my name but I told her if she didn't want to she didn't have to. I don't believe anyone should be forced into that in any direction.